Mingle Mingle: Attractiveness 5 on 5

"Sometimes love comes around when it knock it down" that's what they said... almost each religion has his own "cupid" or "god of love" that is supposed to arrange our other half. But sometimes things happened or stayed in that condition because of some reason.

"One day when I wake up I will have six pack, man beard nice pants and a girlfriend"

If we decided not to blame it on the fate and start to do something to make changes perhaps we could start by looking into ourselves and examine whether are we attractive or not, than go straight into girls pickup technique

The ultimate guide to pick up chicks

Left: how you think you looked to girls 

right: how you really looked to girls

Let's see how man think what's 5 keys attribute to attractiveness to women, if you google "attractive woman it gives you the following:

It seems that google think blond who wear less with a seductive look is sexy

from my point of view, what makes a woman attractive are (not in order)

Body and look with a promise to be faithful
Let's not talk about supermodel here, I am not movie star nor I will request for another movie star. But she need not look like hot super model but if I am gonna spend rest of my life with her, her look should not make me feel like puke. 

This girl makes the best sandwich in the world and have nice character... 

I like her and would like to hire her to work in my kitchen

For ladies who wants to argue with me I am an animal judging ppl by look, answer me the woman on top looks healthier and carries better genes or the one below?

reason why I go gym

This is for woman who is obsessed with slim:

By means of look I mean natural look. Some man likes woman with makeup but I prefer more natural woman. Partly because of below:

Personal fetish on looks: tattoo and red head

Confidence
" Does this dress makes me look fat?" "No your ass is making the dress look fat" ... Personally I prefer woman with a fair bit of confidence with herself and in me. It's a pain to listen woman complaining on her body all night which seemed perfectly ok to a man.

confidence in herself also plays a part of having confidence in me, if I am in a relationship with a woman i will remain faithful, I have a friend whose wife would gone crazy if he only took a peek on other woman on the street. I think it is matter of time he would gone crazy as well.

characteristic
Looks fades with time and character will decide how long a couple walks. I need to feel good when be together with her. If her mood will swing out of every little things I will feel stress when looking at her.

Biggest challenge Mario would need to face everyday is getting out of argument

How about we eat air and drink water?

man would like girls who have occasionally fun

ability to take care family
Not to say I am a couch potato who lies there and waiting my sandwich to be serve. But it gives me the warmth in heart when my woman cooks me a dinner and helps me tie my tie every morning.

of course this would be bonus

Intelligent and diligent
It is true that most men prefer women who are less intellect than them for they feel needed. But there must be a limit. If she can't even know where to pay bills, how to read and don't bother to wash her clothes, I will be busy to crazy and my kids in future probably gonna have a bad childhood for no one would read them bedtime story, wash their cloth and prepare healthy breakfast for them. I will have problem communicating with her and not sure what to talk to her.

nice ass no brain no thanks

Now let's talk about what's 5 keys attribute to attractiveness of women. When google "attractive woman it gives you the following:

google likes man with six pack, deadly smile and moustache

But oddly, when we see hot girls normally don't gets paired with handsome Johnny man like the above...Is is because cupid is a male and he is jealous? or Is it something else than women are seeking when choosing life time partner?

It must be that sauce. I need that

General male perception may be different but here is what I think a girl is looking at (not in order):

manliness (with a promise to protect)
In stone age, female needs a male who can offer protection to her and the family. This thing is still very embedded in the gene until today.

So man that he can destroy things in one punch

so man that he piss fire

real man uses shield, not umbrella sissy!

However super punch, creating fire and as man as spartan is not what I mean. If you have a body or packs but don't have the guts to stand out and protect your woman when someone offense her, you probably gonna be ditch by her soon.

Body and look
I think no one will argue if I says body figure indicates certain degree of health and look indicates certain degree of healthy genes. Everybody unconsciously want to choose a healthy mate to be with, whether or not a healthy offspring is in mind. But not to say that a woman will abandon a man when he is diagnosed with terminal disease.  Between a healthy look man who probably exercise regularly and a fat nerd who probably surf porn while eating junk food regularly, which one will you choose?

don't over do workout until your muscle bends the room

I asked you to take me the soul not eat the soul

probably best man on earth

Resources with a promise to be faithful
Since stone age, men has traditional duty of breadwinner of a family. I think most will agree that no woman likes a loser. Some men might feel offended, start singing women are gold diggers:

gold digger: This man looks talented

not quite as i am trying to imply

Some may argue with poor student who study law or doctor. Well they might not be resourceful now but their future sure is full of resource.
I am not trying to imply that women are gold diggers. Life is unfair. If you are not born rich or have a promising future, at least try to be motivated and have a plan to create better life. Nobody likes a maggot, seriously.

talent
Some women likes man with talent, be it playing musical instrument  ability to create art or cooking. It act as a bonus. Just like how a woman in a bikini who is making breakfast turns a man on.

not quite what I mean

Darth vader's side talent earns him a living after death star exploded

character
This one is a bit vague but character quite influences how long a couple will walk. Perhaps not all but intelligent women will surely consider characteristic of a male when choosing mate. Be it the ability to make choices or advance, or man but not bossy ect ect...

probably how dinosaur extinct

tips for first dating

However,

while after reading those some may feel love is less pure as it seemed, it is not necessary so as there are also many cases and love story like love at first sight on each other and having a nice ending. Just that when cupid has not visit you for sometimes, perhaps you should think where went wrong?

So here we have attractiveness 5 on 5, hope everyone can be attractive and finds their true love in future...